Thank you Neyo: An Open Letter From a Wife to a Married Man

Have you ever heard a man reprimand another man for cheating on his spouse? I haven’t, ever. What I have heard is men bragging about cheating, sympathizing with the cheater, assisting him in said cheating, or being amused by it. I’ve seen this circumstance time and time again and very rarely have I ever, certainly…

5 Times your Girlfriends Gave you Horrible Dating Advice

If I had of listened to my friends dating advice I would have been pregnant at 16, married to a scammer, with a body count well past a fifth graders counting abilities or possibly…and I mean this in all seriousness…dead. As much as our close girlfriends love and care about us, lets face it, sometimes…

Six Funerals and a Wedding

    My Funeral is next week. I remember accidentally saying one week before my wedding. I dont know why I mistakingly said funeral instead of wedding. Maybe it was due to hearing the word funeral so much as so many close friends and family were losing loved ones so close to our wedding, maybe…

8 Signs You are Self Sabotaging Your Dating Life

      It’s Summa summa summa timmmmee and after getting quite a few calls, texts and outright cries for help about men and dating issues I figured I would come out of hiding and help my ladies out. Around spring and summer men tend to totally forget their home training, morals and the fact…

5 Issues You Need To Stop Bringing into Relationships Immediately

Recently I hosted a ladies wine night at my house which consisted of a ton of wine, appetizers, vegan cheesecake that was a hit or miss depending on who you asked, trash talking, confessions of daddy issues and some deep revelations about ourselves few of us hadn’t even realized or admitted to others prior to…

5 Signs He’s A Keeper

When I first met my fiancé I knew right away he was different from any guy i’d known let alone dated. At 19 that wasn’t many guys, but he was just – different ok. He didn’t dress, act or talk like most guys I knew. He wooed me with impromptu R&B ballads he played on…

The Art of Seduction: 5 Signs You’re Being Seduced

Many of us have or will experience him, the serial seducer. One minute you have luke-warm take it or leave it feelings for the guy, the next you’re restraining yourself from handing over the panties on a pedestal. How did we so carelessly let our guard down for the guy we were weary about from…

Let’s all stop fueling the Chris Brown Soulja Boy flame shall we?

We’ve seen this act before, and frankly it’s played out. Two black entertainers pinned against each other all for the amusement, or lack there of from the public. What is it that makes them lash out at each other so publicly? Why do we continually tune in and egg on this behavior? What are we…